Publisher: Mike Pilinski
Gadget Name: Pick Up Artist\'s Tips and Dating Strategies
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|28 DATING AND SEDUCTION TIPS FROM THE AUTHOR OF WITHOUT EMBARRASSMENT||Published: 09/05/09|
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Greetings fellow skirt chasers! My name is Mike Pilinski and I'd like to take a moment before we kick-off this parade of "28 Tips" eLerts to tell you right off the bat that I am not a PhD in anything -- nor am I some kind of "relationship expert" guy who has spent the last 15 years of his life producing a doctoral thesis destined to become the Grand Unified Theory of human dating (although I will accept the Nobel Prize... nerdy girls do love Nobel's. ;-)
What I am is a guy who couldn't get laid to save his life all throughout his teens and most of his 20's because I was a shy, socially inept, toxically shamed, rage-filled little prick who didn't know enough to get out of his own way when it came to charming women. I couldn't talk to 'em, I couldn't ask them out on a date, I couldn't even look them in the eye. I was absolutely phobic... pickled in my fear of rejection, in fact. The worse part though was I couldn't for the life of me understand why I was this way.
My childhood had been happy and normal -- I'd had tons of friends. I was a comedic guy who could have crowds of people in stitches at a party all night. Why was I such a miserable failure when it came to scoring with girls and moving across the great divide from friends to romantic lover? There was someone for everyone, right? Why was there no one for me?
The reason (that I would only slowly come to understand years later) was that had adopted all the classic traits of the Low Status Male.
The revelations came to me slowly at first, and then with increasing vigor as I dug deeper and deeper into the dark maze that our minds can become if left to feed on their own self-generated anxieties. The funny part is that there wasn't even some big amazing secret at the end of the tunnel - the answers were always lying right there in front of me like lazy dogs in the hot sun. You'll recognize them as well when you see what they are in you.
The problem with guys like you 'n me isn't their inability to see, it's a selective blindness that takes root in a mind which has become way too clever for its own good.
Anyway, I wrote a couple of books about all this stuff. One of them is called Without Embarrassment, and the tips you'll be reading here are pretty much excerpted from its' pages with some added embellishments. Together they form a framework of the insights I've gained on this maddening subject of women -- by thinking, researching, feeling, experiencing... and lately even from corresponding with guys from all over the world.
Basically by letting my face get punched in by life and love -- and then counting up all the bruises for your entertainment. And hopefully all of our collective education. Man, what a long strange trip it's been. So let's do it already.
Tip # 1 -- Women grade men for their mating potential by assessing a guy's position along a grand, sweeping scale of male pecking order that I call the Male Dominance Scale.
This first one really isn't so much a "tip" as it is a Commandment that every guy should chisel into the sidewalk in front of his house.
Up until the age of 35 or so, I never fully understood just how absolutely monumental the whole male dominant status thing was to women when it comes to the process they use in their minds to sort out men for mating and dating potential. With surprising speed, sometimes only seconds after meeting them, women will often mentally sort men into three distinct categories:
A ) men whom they would be willing to accept romantic overtures from, and ultimately consider falling in love with, (or at least make love to)...
B ) men who, no matter what, could never be regarded as anything more than mere friends, and...
C ) men who completely repulse them for some reason (physical, social, character factor, biological, etc.) and whom they feel they must stay away from at all costs.
The higher up you are perceived to be on this "male scale", the more attractive you will seem to all women... often in spite of a surprising assortment of physical shortcomings. This principle is understood in a peripheral sort of way by most men. But it doesn't seem to make the same sort of deep impression on us the way that most women intuitively seem to understand how they must keep their own visual appearance as sharp as possible in order to remain reasonably attractive to at least some men.
Another key issue here is that women will make this judgment about your romantic potential in a highly temperamental, almost capricious way. They seem to sense within mere moments of meeting a guy which "pile" he belongs in. This is truly some inbred female instinct that men don't possess an analog for. As far as simple "mating" is concerned, all but perhaps the most heinous pigs will suffice (and even the heinous have a chance after a few shots of Yagermeister...)
That's why it's essential that you immediately make the correct first impression around women or you are forever banished into the non-romantic "Friends Land" pile where you simply cannot escape.
So it's all about where you reside on this Male Dominance Scale... that assessment of how much wealth, authority, intelligence, health, style, artistic talent, mechanical / academic competency, athletic power and / or social grace that you've managed to accumulate so far - pro-rated against your approximate age, i.e. where a guy like you should be at any certain point in his life, given the fact that he has no apparent mental (ha-ha!) or physical handicaps.
We all know how this principle works in the extreme... that a Congressman, a Rock Star and a Rich Guy are more attractive to women (despite how they may look physically) than a janitor or a homeless bum. But many guys don't understand to what a fine degree women can sense the subtleties of how men are sorted along this all important male-scale.
Nor do they often understand just how critical this judgment is to a woman when she's trying to decide (even unconsciously) if she finds a certain man attractive.
Before you can become skilled at seducing women, you must have a thorough understanding of just what they are looking for in the men whom they want to love. You must become familiarized in all aspects of the grading system that women use to place the label of sexy on a man. After all, you can't begin to seduce them until you first capture their attention.
So always try to give off that powerful HSM "vibe" wherever you go -- otherwise you'll be in for an uphill battle. There's no better way to reduce the likelihood of being rejected than by getting a positive GO signal first before you decide to attempt any opening gambit. HSM's get more of these signals than their low status counterparts. It's simply the way the world works.
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