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Publisher: Mike Pilinski Gadget Name: Pick Up Artist\'s Tips and Dating Strategies About This Gadget: ![]()
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| TIP 3 -- IT ISN'T SO MUCH THE SPOKEN CONTENT OF YOUR WORDS TO A WOMAN, RATHER THAN THE UNSPOKEN INTENT BEHIND THEM | Published: 14/05/09 |
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| Tip # 3 -- It isn't so much the spoken content of your words to a woman, rather than the unspoken intent behind them The mistake a lot of guys make when talking to women is being too focused on what they're saying (the content of their conversation) while completely ignoring the critical messages conveyed by your attitude (the intent behind your words). This little fact could be why you are unfortunately consigned to friendsville with many of the girls that you already know, and perhaps even have some passionate designs upon. While being friendly or interesting might impress a woman's conscious mind, you'll never engage any romantic interest without some compelling communication directed towards her subconscious mind - invisible statements of certainty about your male sexual self that can only be transmitted non-verbally through specific actions and attitudes. For any seduction to succeed, you must relentlessly convey your desirability as a mating partner with the goal of provoking her own base instincts into awakening in a similar fashion. This is where thoughts of love, lust, sex and all that other good stuff flow from. This is also what's known as romantic chemistry. Whatever you do, never try to communicate your desirability to a woman by actually proclaiming it and telling her what a sexy guy you are! As you might imagine, this is utterly lame. The sex appeal of a high status male has to be self-evident through his actions and attitudes or it simply doesn't exist for her. It's the same way as if some dumpy chick came up and told you how incredibly beautiful she was because of her awesome lacquered nails. Would her overblown and even somewhat delusional self-assessment have any chance of changing your mind about her? I doubt it. So don't try to short circuit the seduction process by trying to jaw-jack those things that must be communicated subtly to a woman's subconscious mind. Your approach must always be one that oozes patience and confidence.
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