In spite of all the brouhaha about women emancipation, women still have some shackles they have to break when it comes to sex and relationships. For most women, it is very hard to initiate anything sexually. This is partly due to the preconceived notion that women who do so are loose or promiscuous and the idea that women are not supposed to take the initiative.

Most women were brought up with the mentality that the guy has got to do the “chasing” in each and every way. Unfortunately, things do not work this way. Men want to be chased too. They want to feel needed and a woman who knows how to do this will have her man answering to her every need.

If you doubt the truism of the last two sentences, ask yourself why men with docile but unadventurous wives cheat on their spouses with “escorts” –for want of a better word- and why the good guys often end up with bad girls who have changed their ways.

It is simply because they know how to treat the men right. And whether you like it or not, they have more advantage over you and can snatch your man if you do not learn the necessary things you need to do to give him pleasure. These include

1. Take the time to talk About things

If you guys have not been doing this before, it might come across as strange to him. But if you keep at it, he’ll finally come around from the “shocked” state into a more open phase. Ask him what he like and what he would like to do. Ask him what he would want to do with you without being ashamed of his appetites. Ladies remember, if your man respects you, he wants you to see an honourable part of him. Therefore, he might keep his thoughts to himself. But if you really desire to know your man in the deepest manner possible, then this is the right step to take.

2. Surprise him

For once, go shopping and try out something new. If you haven’t changed your underwear in a while, it’s about time you looked for something sexy and flattering to your figure. Most women think that after the first child, they only have to wear comfortable underwear and forget about being sexy. This is not exactly very flattering as the man gets the distinct but subtle idea that you do not care about him. Instead of doing this, why not go into an underwear shop and talk to the experts there!

Better still, look for a more fashionable friend, tell her what you want to do and see what suggestions she comes up with. Then go to the shops and get those. It might be a tad bit uncomfortable when you try it the first time, but the rewards will be great. Your man will absolutely love you for it and you will be shocked at how frequently he would want you.

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