Publisher: Mike Pilinski
Gadget Name: Pick Up Artist\'s Tips and Dating Strategies
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|TIP 2 -- IN THE MATING GAME, THE WOMEN GO FIRST||Published: 13/05/09|
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Tip # 2 -- In The Mating Game, The Women Go First
There's a lot of anger out there among the bitter, rejected males -- and one of the great disempowering habits they sometimes form is a stubborn refusal to play the game of love and romance any more. To hell with it, they think... I'm not making a fool of myself by begging some b**ch to like me...
But how wrong they are, because if they really understood what was going on they would know that it's the woman who always makes the first move of the seduction -- essentially relieving the guy of this heavy burden. Women are the ones who always choose the male from which they will accept an overture, by initiating a seduction with some kind of non-verbal beckoning signal. I call this is the Female Mating Call, (even though no actual sound is made!).
Non-verbal is the key here... by social convention they will never be the first ones to utter a word when meeting a stranger. The "rules" of the game state that it is the man's next move after her signal to acknowledge this non-verbal call and then initiate some kind of verbal greeting.
In other words, while it might be our job to say something first, it's always their job to show the first sign of genuine interest!
The trick, of course, is knowing how to get chosen.
You see, you must believe that women want you to win the game and steal their heart -- but they will not throw the match and let you win without a contest. If you choose to play hard and smart, you will be rewarded at every successful step along the way. But you must be willing at least to play... if you give up due to arrogance or simple "failure" exhaustion, you are off the playing field.
And, if you occasionally try to lean in and making a play from your position on the sidelines, you will be scorned and rejected ruthlessly. Ever happen to you?
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